I really fancy my friend, we've been friends a long time and she knows how I feel about her. She is very sweet but the minute she's had a drink, she flirts and cops off with people infront of me. I know I don't have a leg to stand on because she is entitled to do what she wants, I've even not gone on nights out so she doesn't feel awkward but she insists I come. I don't really want to distance myself because we have the same friendship group and i don't want to make anyone else feel they have to pick sides. Help!!
Much Love, Tanya.
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Verdict:
We always say a good friend is someone who would treat you the way they wish to be treated. We understand your predicament and agree it shouldn't have to be you to distance yourself but maybe some time away just to clear your head and figure out if she is really what you want. We say you deserve better, take up a new hobby or activity or do something you wouldn't normally do, you never know who you'll meet and we feel it could be someone more suited. Sounds like she likes seeing you jealous so we say ditch her and find someone who will appreciate you.
Big Love x
DITCH!!!
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