Hey girlies!

Can you help me out with some advice or comments on this one. I'm a lesbian and seeing a girl for 5 months now. She is actually amazing and I think I could stay with her but she seems a little off-put by the whole 'let's make this a bit more public' thing. I am a bit upset cos she has come out years ago and I have only told my family and friends in the last 5 months- mainly due to being with her.
She told me she doesn't want a label and that she like's how its going at the minute.
To be honest, I'm just a bit fed up of the sneaking around and not being able to touch her in public. It's not like I want her to be my girlfriend all over facebook, but it makes me feel a bit unloved. What should I do? I really like her and don't want to end but do you think I should give her a bit of an ultimatum?

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Our verdict:

Well us girls have a pretty straight opinion on this girlie! Sexuality has always been something hard for most people to talk about as its still quite new to others. Being a lesbian shouldn't effect your relationship as much as it is if your girl has come out a long time ago. What is she so afraid of anyway? I reckon you have one last conversation with her explaining you are upset by the way she seems to want to hide you away. If her reaction isn't apologetic then we say get rid babe! If you came out to your friends and family for her benefit then she can do the same. After all, as you said, Its not as though you are asking her to even be your girlfriend. Best of luck honey!

Hi girls,

Last week I was out with my friends  in town when I met an old Uni friend. I went to University in Plymouth but I have moved back to Liverpool since.
He and I had had a fling back in Uni so I was chuffed when he brought me for lunch that same day.
He told me he had just moved here and so I told him I would be his personal tour guide. We had a great catch-up and I'm not gonna lie, I was pretty happy when he told me he was a single pringle.
I've been seeing him quite a lot the last month and a half and he has now made a few friends through me. Thing is, he hasn't contacted me in about 2 weeks and I have seen photo's of him on facebook with a group of people I know very well. I can't help but be mad at him. Afterall, I showed him around and introduced him to everyone. Of course the aim was so that he would make friends and I'm happy he has, but not when he ignores me.
I don't know whether to contact him or just leave him to it? I feel a bit used and pushed to the side if i'm honest. Bitch or Ditch gals?

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Our verdict:

Aw girly I say get rid of him. If he can't see how much you have done for him in terms of him being the new kid 2 months ago, then he simply is not worth it.

He should be so grateful for all the people you have introduced him to and he should definitely be inviting you on these nights out also.

If he doesn't want to date you for some reason or another then he should just tell you to your face instead of ignoring you like a coward.

There are plenty more fishies in the sea honey! I think you should probably give him a taste of his own medicine and next time he contacts you to go out, turn him down.

You don't need him!

Hi 2 Love my Lips ladies...

I really hope you choose my story to be published on your blog as I need help, and fast. My friend told me that my housemate kissed the guy I have clearly fancied for ages last week on a night out. I am pretty upset because my housemate is meant to be a close friend and hasn't even had the guts to tell me. To be honest, I am very surprised by it all as she is usually very loyal and has a strong opinion of what is right and wrong.

I know that the friend who told me has always been jealous of our bond but Im not sure she would stoop as low as to lie about something like this. Should I confront my housemate? I'm finding it hard to be in her company as I feel she is being nothing but sneaky yet I can't help but think that there has been a form of misunderstanding.

She is the kind of person who would own up to any wrong-doing on her behalf immediately.
Could my friend be stirring? If so, I would feel really bad about confronting my housmate if nothing really happened as she has always been a fab friend. Help required girls!


Lisa, 21, Ormskirk

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Our verdict:

I think this is one of those situations that you need ot act on now or never!

It could very well be that this friend really is that jealous that she wants to try and disrrupt you and your housemates strong bond! This would be the worst outcome in one way but not in another. Of course you don't want to believe that your good friend would do this but you need ot stop wondering and get to the bottom of it.There could be a possibly good explanation, or maybe not, but either way, give both friends a chance before making rash assumptions.

Go for it girl!